Rewire For Birth Podcast

Mom Brain: Body Image During Pregnancy and Postpartum with Cindy & Melissa

July 06, 2024 Dr. Cindy Tahhan, B.S.C., ND Season 1 Episode 26

Send us a text

Join us for an intimate conversation with Melissa, a new member of the Rewire For Birth team. Dive into our candid discussion about body image throughout pregnancy and postpartum life.

Key Points Discussed:

  • Finding Confidence in VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean): Listen to one of our most downloaded episodes featuring Melissa's birth story.
  • Introducing "Mom Brain" Mini Episodes: A series focusing on the thoughts and experiences of two moms navigating parenthood.
  • Body Image Insights:
    • The liberating feeling some women experience during pregnancy when showing off their baby bump confidently.
    • Addressing preconceived notions about weight gain during pregnancy and its impact on self-image.
    • Cultural influences on body image perceptions before, during, and after pregnancy.


Personal Experiences Shared:

  • Melissa's Journey:
    • Overcoming fears related to body changes during pregnancy.
    • Embracing her pregnant body with confidence contrary to expectations.
  • Cindy’s Reflections:
    • Positive reinforcement received from others while pregnant versus post-birth commentary shift concerning getting back in shape.


Strategies for Healthy Body Image:

  • Setting strong boundaries around discussions concerning your body by family members or friends, especially in front of children.
  • Reframing mindset towards nourishing both mother's and baby’s bodies instead of focusing solely on physical appearance or returning to pre-pregnancy form.


Cultural Commentary & Family Dynamics:

  • Discussion around Middle Eastern cultural norms involving open conversations about others' bodies without considering personal boundaries or feelings involved.


Postpartum Realities & Adjustments:

  • Acceptance that it may take years rather than weeks to feel like oneself again after childbirth due to hormonal shifts, sleep schedules, etc.
  • Importance of maintaining personal identity alongside motherhood through self-care practices.

We also wanted to mention here that we wished we spoke about the importance of how we speak about our own bodies to ourselves and in front of our children, especially our daughters, so they have an example of acceptance and reverence of the human form in all phases of life. 

This episode emphasizes the need for a cultural shift toward understanding that true recovery after childbirth takes time—potentially years—and should be approached with compassion both internally as well as externally from society at large.

Remember to listen to Episode 11  "Finding Confidence in VBAC" for more insights into Melissa’s journey! Stay tuned for more episodes under our "Mom Brain" series where we delve deeper into various aspects of motherhood.

Make sure to folllow us on IG: @drcindytahhan


People on this episode